One of the most difficult times that we have to face is the devastating period we go through when someone very dear and precious is no longer with us. The feelings of bereavement and deprivation overcome us and we tend to go into a state of depression and grief. It is at this stage that we require the emotional support of close family and friends. Islam teaches us to condole with our brothers and sisters in the way of the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH).
When a Muslim passes away, we would usually hear a Muslim says to another Muslim “Innalillahiwainnailaihirojiun” which is the Rumi writings for ‘We surely belong to Allah and to Him we shall return’.
However, it is not only related to just death per se, but it can also be said when someone experiences a tragedy in life, loses something, suffer a setback or harm.
Find below, sample condolence messages and prayers you can send to your bereaved Muslim friend or loved one.
30 Islamic Condolence Text Messages for a Muslim Friend or Loved One
Kullu nafsin zaa’ikatul maut, Allahu akbar, my deepest condolence brother, may Allah grant him Jannah and forgive him his sins. Ameen.
May Allah forgive all his sins and count him among the ones to follow Prophet Mohammed to Al-jannah Firdaus. Ameen.
My sincere condolence. Please take heart. May Allah s.w.t. gives you and your family the fortitude to bear the loss. Al-Fatihah.
May Allah s.w.t. grant him light in the grave, expand his grave for him, and grant him Al Jannatul Firdaus. I pray for the peace and blessings of Allah be upon the Rasul, His forgiveness for all believing men and women, and may He grant you the fortitude to bear the loss. Ameen.
May Allah expand his grave , illuminate it and grant him wonderful and blessed companions in the grave. Ameen.
May Allah s.w.t. grant you and your family sabr (sabar) in this difficult time, and reward you with Khair both in this world and the next. Ameen.
Innalillahiwainnailaihirojiun. It is with heavy hearts that I, on behalf of [name of organization], send our condolences to one of our own own, [someone in grieve], over the death, few days ago, of his loving dad/mum [the deceased]. We pray Allah s.w.t forgive his shortcomings and admit him into Al-Jannah Firdaus. Our heart goes to you, our brother/sister. We believe you will find your strength in Allah in this trying period.
I wish I could say something to help ease your pain. May the Almighty give you patience and ease to pass through these trials.
I wish to extend my condolences on the death of your mother. I pray for her soul to rest in peace and for you to regain your strength.
I pray the love of Allah enfolds you during your difficult times and He helps you heal with the passage of time.
May Allah give them an easy and pleasant journey and shower blessings on their grave.
May Almighty Allah dwell him in Jannatul Firdaus.
May God give you patience.
You have been a great friend of mine. Today’s loss is just as much mine as yours. May Allah grant him/her eternal peace.
Never wish to seek what you cannot see. Losing faith in Allah is not the solution right now. I know it is going tough for you. But Allah will help you.
Now is not the time for you to cry. You have lost what was dear to you. But you should now pray to the Almighty Allah for keeping your loved one in Jannah. May Allah grant him/her eternal peace.
Every living being on Earth shall taste death. As you lost the dear one today, people who dear you will lose you too one day. May the departed soul rest in peace in Jannah!
Jannatul Mauwa is truly the most beautiful paradise. May Allah grant him/her this paradise. He cannot place the wrong judgment. Pray for his/her eternal peace.
We pray the love of Allah enfolds you during your difficult times and He helps you heal with the passage of time.
Kullu nafsin zaa’ikatul maut, Allahu akbar, My deepest condolence brother, May Allah grant him Jannah and forgive him his sins. Indeed the way he died has the virtue of Martyrdom.
No amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of worrying can change the future. Go easy on yourself, for the outcome of all affairs is determined by Allah’s decree. If something is meant to go elsewhere it will never come your way but if it is yours by destiny from you it cannot flee.
I wish there was something I could say to ease your pain. May Almighty give you patience and ease to pass through these trials.
May Allah s.w.t. in his mercy, grant him rest, may his grave be a part of Jannatul Firdaus and an abode of light. May Allah make him pass successfully in all the stages of the life after death. Ameen.
May Almighty Allah dwell him in Jannataul-Firdaus, the most beautiful paradise.
It is Allah’s that takes and it is He that gives, and He prescribes a certain destiny for every matter.
May Allah s.w.t. enhance your recompense and be generous in your calamity and forgive the deceased and induce you with patience and multiply for us and for you recompense through patience. Ameen.
May Allah s.w.t. grant him/her Jannatul-Firdaus and forgive his/her sins. May He make his/her grave a place of comfort and light. Ameen.
It is always Allah who takes care of you and it is HIM who takes one away. You cannot defy the destiny He has in store for you. Wish for the best. Try to believe in Him.
May Rahmanir Rahim grant you sabar in this tough time and grant you the strength to bear this great loss. I can’t think of anything soothing right at this moment. But I’m praying for you and the dear one you lost.
My heartiest sympathy goes to you and your family. Today your grief has touched us all. Let us share the pain together
5 Islamic Condolence Prayers for a Muslim Friend or Loved One
“O Allah! Forgive [the deceased], elevate his status among the guided people and look after the family that he left behind. O Lord of the universe! Forgive us and him, comfort him in his grave and lighten his stay (in the grave).” [Sahih Muslim]
O Allah, forgive and have mercy upon him, excuse him and pardon him, and make honorable his reception. Expand his entry, and cleanse him with water, snow, and ice, and purify him of sin as a white robe is purified of filth. Exchange his home for a better home, and his family for a better family, and his spouse for a better spouse. Admit him into the Garden, protect him from the punishment of the grave and the torment of the Fire.
O Allah, so-and-so is under Your care and protection so protect him from the trial of the grave and torment of the Fire. Indeed You are faithful and truthful. Forgive and have mercy upon him, surely You are The Oft-Forgiving, The Most-Merciful
O Allaah, Your servant and the son of Your maidservant is in need of Your mercy and You are without need of his punishment. If he was righteous then increase his reward and if he was wicked then look over his sins.
Innalillahiwainnailaihirojiun. May Allah s.w.t. grant him/her Jannatul-Firdaus and forgive his/her sins. May He make his/her grave a place of comfort and light. Al-Fatihah.